Thursday, January 20
Just something i have posted in response to a discussion in mylot.
God never created anything to make us suffer, what we experience today-either it's good or bad- are results or our actions and decisions in the past. Whether we admit them or not it is true, our problems are not given by God it is the effect of our wrong decisions or merely a wrong decision of our peers that affected us directly or indirectly.
If you are thinking why did God, if he is really powerful, allow that problems to happen and not just erase it. Well my friend you have to remember that God does not tolerate our mistakes, he loves us so much that he wants us to learn from it. Think of problems as rods meant to direct our path.
Besides problems and obstacles are just a grain of salt, how we deal with them are what defines us.
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If you are thinking why did God, if he is really powerful, allow that problems to happen and not just erase it. Well my friend you have to remember that God does not tolerate our mistakes, he loves us so much that he wants us to learn from it. Think of problems as rods meant to direct our path.
Besides problems and obstacles are just a grain of salt, how we deal with them are what defines us.
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Nine Common Problems That Break a Good Relationship | Socyberty
Even great relationship has its own flaws, here are some reasons why most relationship fails.
Money
The saying money is the root of all evil may not be true but in most cases money is the cause of disagreement between people.
Even in relationships money plays an important role that make or break the family. When people have different upbringing they are often have different ways in handling money and so disagreement arises.
Work
Work status sometimes create a big hole in a relationship, its like when the woman is career wise and the man has a jack-ass attitude and vise versa, most often it gives a gap on a relationship. Diversity and ethnic difference also affect work attitude and thus mar a good relationship.
Job Loss
Loosing our beloved job is very hard and much harder when it starts to create havoc on your steady relationship. A sudden job loss change people attitude that gradually affect his dealing to people even to his better half especially if its your family’s bread and butter.
Sex and Romance
Sex is one of the main ingredient of a good relationship yet it is also one of the most messed topics especially of a husband and wife. They often hide sexual problems to each other at the start of their relationship and gradually reveal it at the course of their marriage. Sexual problems are often the reason why marriages are being broken.
Infidelity
The most hated topic of both parties yet the main reason why most people broke. Infidelity exist and nobody can deny that. Statistically speaking a lot of broken relationship and marriage were due to infidelity of either party.
Stress
Stress is a part of life, it can extremely damage the relationship without us knowing it. Peer pressure, work issues, money matters and health condition can cause stress and gradually affect our way of dealing to our love ones.
Addictive Behavior
Being drug dependent is harmful especially in a relationship, people under the possession of drugs or alcohol has no stable mind condition and can do things that could harm their partner especially when provoke. Stress plus drug or alcohol addiction equals a living hell.
Domestic Violence
The infamous crime – families especially wives are too ashamed to talk to and reveal truth. Domestic violence is an aggressive behavior of one partner towards another. Something that should really be solved.
Irritating Habits
Leaving the toilet seat up, personal hygiene, food issues, leaving a mess in any part room and squeezing the toothpaste tube from the middle have become the classic examples of irritating habits that frequently cause couple to throw negative lines between each other.
Read more: http://socyberty.com/relationships/nine-common-problems-that-break-a-good-relationship/#ixzz1CcvSTSuz
Money
The saying money is the root of all evil may not be true but in most cases money is the cause of disagreement between people.
Even in relationships money plays an important role that make or break the family. When people have different upbringing they are often have different ways in handling money and so disagreement arises.
Work
Work status sometimes create a big hole in a relationship, its like when the woman is career wise and the man has a jack-ass attitude and vise versa, most often it gives a gap on a relationship. Diversity and ethnic difference also affect work attitude and thus mar a good relationship.
Job Loss
Loosing our beloved job is very hard and much harder when it starts to create havoc on your steady relationship. A sudden job loss change people attitude that gradually affect his dealing to people even to his better half especially if its your family’s bread and butter.
Sex and Romance
Sex is one of the main ingredient of a good relationship yet it is also one of the most messed topics especially of a husband and wife. They often hide sexual problems to each other at the start of their relationship and gradually reveal it at the course of their marriage. Sexual problems are often the reason why marriages are being broken.
Infidelity
The most hated topic of both parties yet the main reason why most people broke. Infidelity exist and nobody can deny that. Statistically speaking a lot of broken relationship and marriage were due to infidelity of either party.
Stress
Stress is a part of life, it can extremely damage the relationship without us knowing it. Peer pressure, work issues, money matters and health condition can cause stress and gradually affect our way of dealing to our love ones.
Addictive Behavior
Being drug dependent is harmful especially in a relationship, people under the possession of drugs or alcohol has no stable mind condition and can do things that could harm their partner especially when provoke. Stress plus drug or alcohol addiction equals a living hell.
Domestic Violence
The infamous crime – families especially wives are too ashamed to talk to and reveal truth. Domestic violence is an aggressive behavior of one partner towards another. Something that should really be solved.
Irritating Habits
Leaving the toilet seat up, personal hygiene, food issues, leaving a mess in any part room and squeezing the toothpaste tube from the middle have become the classic examples of irritating habits that frequently cause couple to throw negative lines between each other.
Read more: http://socyberty.com/relationships/nine-common-problems-that-break-a-good-relationship/#ixzz1CcvSTSuz
Friday, January 7
Wishin' and Hopin' (My Best Friend's Wedding Intro Song)
Believe it or not i only get to watch this outstanding movie today because I'm not a romantic comedies fanatic and I'm more into action movies but the moment i finished it, i can say i really enjoyed it, no i actually love it.
The story line is good, the casts are hilariously great and what i love the most is the music.
I particularly like the intro song where the 4 ladies sing and act the song "Wishin' and Hopin'" by Ani diFranco. Its the first thing that makes me watch the entire film actually.
I posted the video here on my blog (its on the previous post actually since i don't know how to insert a text on it..lol) so kindly look at it if you are interested to watch it again....
And here's the lyrics...enjoy!!
Lyrics | Ani DiFranco - Wishin’ and Hopin’ lyrics
The story line is good, the casts are hilariously great and what i love the most is the music.
I particularly like the intro song where the 4 ladies sing and act the song "Wishin' and Hopin'" by Ani diFranco. Its the first thing that makes me watch the entire film actually.
I posted the video here on my blog (its on the previous post actually since i don't know how to insert a text on it..lol) so kindly look at it if you are interested to watch it again....
And here's the lyrics...enjoy!!
Lyrics | Ani DiFranco - Wishin’ and Hopin’ lyrics
Tuesday, January 4
How to Pick Lipstick That Best Matches Your Skin Tone
Lipsticks are one of the most fashionable craze for women, however picking the best one is not an easy task. The color of your lipstick could make or break your overall appearance so you have to be very careful when choosing the one for you.
One of the most important thing to consider when choosing a lipstick is its color, you need to pick up a lip accent that would best accentuate your pucker.
Choosing your match
Choose a lipstick color that will complement you natural shade. If you have dark skin color then deep red, wines and plum color lipstick would suit you, on the other hand, beige with pinkish shade or orange would look great on a lighter skin. For those with a mixed color skin like a bit tanned then a light brown color would make it.
When applying a lipstick at daytime you should also remember to do it close to natural, lighter colors like matte and cream make you glow in the daylight sun, you can also add shiny or glossy finish. For a whole night of glamor a darker color should be chosen.
You should remember one thing in choosing a lipstick, that is to buy the color that you think will look great on your pucker and not just because it looks good on the model or in the tube.
One of the most important thing to consider when choosing a lipstick is its color, you need to pick up a lip accent that would best accentuate your pucker.
Choosing your match
Choose a lipstick color that will complement you natural shade. If you have dark skin color then deep red, wines and plum color lipstick would suit you, on the other hand, beige with pinkish shade or orange would look great on a lighter skin. For those with a mixed color skin like a bit tanned then a light brown color would make it.
When applying a lipstick at daytime you should also remember to do it close to natural, lighter colors like matte and cream make you glow in the daylight sun, you can also add shiny or glossy finish. For a whole night of glamor a darker color should be chosen.
You should remember one thing in choosing a lipstick, that is to buy the color that you think will look great on your pucker and not just because it looks good on the model or in the tube.
An Agony
This is another poem i had written when i was still in High School, it was untitled then until a good friend came up with the title...
At times life could be cruel
Success is illusive in this world of err
You did everything to win and fulfill
You dreamed heaven but trapped in hell
I do regret that I was born
When I live everything went wrong
My entire gamble and all aspiration
The price I got; a crown of thorn.
Life you’re so unfair…
I did my best and I played fair
Though day by day I live with fear
I trusted God with a silent tear
But I doubt sometimes if people hear
The defeat, fear and soundless tear
My agony’s falling like rain in June
And I dare if anybody knows
Heaven forbid, I can’t bear it anymore
All the sufferings and all the torture
Receiving my tears, is this my role?
When will it ends, when breath no more
Understanding the First Puppy Love
Who could forget that first little feeling? That most memorable feeling we felt way back our adolescence. That first smile, that giddy feeling towards someone, the way our face turns red and tongue got tied when that cute seatmate or neighbor is passing by, of that chasing and teasing times. Finding the girl/boy in the next row cute and staring at her/him for hours while dreaming of a romantic date during your teacher’s lecture in front was probably a common experience to most young men and women in their junior years.
This experience attributes to one word – crush – a special feeling we felt towards another person we barely know, a puppy love. Having a crush marks the most exiting phase of us – the start of our teen life. The phase where we began to notice our voice gets deeper, bodies forming a shape, pimples erupting on the corner of our nose. This is likewise the phase when we began to notice and become attracted to the opposite sex. Feeling a great admiration with a mixture of embarrassment is what forms a crush. A feeling like love but lesser than that.
Many believe that a crush is a good start for a person to determine whom he would fall into when he grows older. This determines what qualities the objects of your affection possess that set them apart from the rest. A crush is a starting point, everything started from it.
A crush is inevitable and likewise unpredictable, there’s nothing wrong with having it. A crush can only go wrong when the object of your affection is creating harm towards your attitude and self growth. Having a crush does not mean changing your whole self or forgetting your identity for his/her benefits. It should always be a two way street. Avoid becoming a dog following your master’s trail, that’s not healthy. Likewise, if you feel your crush doesn’t share the same feeling towards you and you’re becoming a laughing stock by the crowd then its time to stop the chasing, maybe you’re not meant to be.
Having a crush is a good experience, and experience can be repeated. If you’re feeling lost in emotions new to you, try seeking for a confidante, your mother or siblings might probably have better advices to share. If you were ashamed or afraid of opening up to your family then your best friend is the next best person to run to at trying times.
This experience attributes to one word – crush – a special feeling we felt towards another person we barely know, a puppy love. Having a crush marks the most exiting phase of us – the start of our teen life. The phase where we began to notice our voice gets deeper, bodies forming a shape, pimples erupting on the corner of our nose. This is likewise the phase when we began to notice and become attracted to the opposite sex. Feeling a great admiration with a mixture of embarrassment is what forms a crush. A feeling like love but lesser than that.
Many believe that a crush is a good start for a person to determine whom he would fall into when he grows older. This determines what qualities the objects of your affection possess that set them apart from the rest. A crush is a starting point, everything started from it.
A crush is inevitable and likewise unpredictable, there’s nothing wrong with having it. A crush can only go wrong when the object of your affection is creating harm towards your attitude and self growth. Having a crush does not mean changing your whole self or forgetting your identity for his/her benefits. It should always be a two way street. Avoid becoming a dog following your master’s trail, that’s not healthy. Likewise, if you feel your crush doesn’t share the same feeling towards you and you’re becoming a laughing stock by the crowd then its time to stop the chasing, maybe you’re not meant to be.
Having a crush is a good experience, and experience can be repeated. If you’re feeling lost in emotions new to you, try seeking for a confidante, your mother or siblings might probably have better advices to share. If you were ashamed or afraid of opening up to your family then your best friend is the next best person to run to at trying times.
Monday, January 3
Do's and Don’ts in Wearing Contact Lenses
Contact lens is an important medical device that has to be correctly and properly prescribed and fitted and carefully maintained to help a person see clearly abd correct eye imperfections such as impaired vision, near sightedness, astigmatism and many other.
Wearing and taking care of your contact lenses may seem complicated at first, however these simple steps can help you maximize the life of contact lenses especially by wearing them safely and comfortably.
The Do's
1. Cleans and disinfect with a solution specifically made for contact lenses.
2. Wash your hands with a mild soap and dry it before handling contact lenses.
3. Apply hair spray before inserting lenses and apply makeup afterwards, remove makeup after removing lenses.
4. Remove lenses if eyes become red and irritated. Consult a doctor if problem persist.
5. Replace contact lenses as recommended.
6. Have spare lenses and solution when traveling.
7. Attend regular eye check-up as scheduled.
The Don’ts
1. Use distilled water, tap water, or saliva to clean the lens.
2. Swim or take a bath with lenses on.
3. Forget to discard lenses when needed and replace with fresh solution each time it is being clean.
4. Wear contact lens overnight.
Wearing and taking care of your contact lenses may seem complicated at first, however these simple steps can help you maximize the life of contact lenses especially by wearing them safely and comfortably.
The Do's
1. Cleans and disinfect with a solution specifically made for contact lenses.
2. Wash your hands with a mild soap and dry it before handling contact lenses.
3. Apply hair spray before inserting lenses and apply makeup afterwards, remove makeup after removing lenses.
4. Remove lenses if eyes become red and irritated. Consult a doctor if problem persist.
5. Replace contact lenses as recommended.
6. Have spare lenses and solution when traveling.
7. Attend regular eye check-up as scheduled.
The Don’ts
1. Use distilled water, tap water, or saliva to clean the lens.
2. Swim or take a bath with lenses on.
3. Forget to discard lenses when needed and replace with fresh solution each time it is being clean.
4. Wear contact lens overnight.
What to Do When Your Cards Got Lost or Stolen?
When your wallet got stolen with your cards on it, think of these simple practical tips before your panic attack.
As much as we hate to, there are some cases when we accidentally loose our wallet with all our important things on it like money, credit card, debit card and IDs. Aside from money, we hate to loose our cards because the person who can get the card might use it purposely and before we take action on it, we’ll find ourselves indebted very badly.
Good thing that there are few tips that could help us during the times when our wallets got stolen or lost.
1. Call immediately to your credit card and bank hotline number and report the card missing. This would be the most important thing to do before the panic attack, it will save you from lots of unknown debts not made by you since the credit department will temporary cancel or freeze your account until you got the card back into your possession.
2. Ask an advice from the credit department on how to dispute fraudulent charges if ever one occur so you are not responsible for them.
3. Review your next billing statement very carefully and report discrepancies immediately.
Theft is rampant and thieves choose wisely, oftentimes they tail their victims and will do their dirty jobs when you least expected it. To prevent being a victim of these “heartless-jerks”, the government advice the people to carry less cards and at least only the cards you will be using for a certain period. Also keep your PIN numbers on a safe place and away from your wallets, as much as possible keep it in your mind (memorize it) so as not to let those thieves have it.
As much as we hate to, there are some cases when we accidentally loose our wallet with all our important things on it like money, credit card, debit card and IDs. Aside from money, we hate to loose our cards because the person who can get the card might use it purposely and before we take action on it, we’ll find ourselves indebted very badly.
Good thing that there are few tips that could help us during the times when our wallets got stolen or lost.
1. Call immediately to your credit card and bank hotline number and report the card missing. This would be the most important thing to do before the panic attack, it will save you from lots of unknown debts not made by you since the credit department will temporary cancel or freeze your account until you got the card back into your possession.
2. Ask an advice from the credit department on how to dispute fraudulent charges if ever one occur so you are not responsible for them.
3. Review your next billing statement very carefully and report discrepancies immediately.
Theft is rampant and thieves choose wisely, oftentimes they tail their victims and will do their dirty jobs when you least expected it. To prevent being a victim of these “heartless-jerks”, the government advice the people to carry less cards and at least only the cards you will be using for a certain period. Also keep your PIN numbers on a safe place and away from your wallets, as much as possible keep it in your mind (memorize it) so as not to let those thieves have it.
Credit Card – an Evil Fairy God Mother
I wrote this article a few months back and has think of publishing it on my own blog to share…
Credit Card – an Evil Fairy God Mother
Sometimes I wonder if credit cards are really a life saver or something that would drag us deeper into debts.
I wrote this article to share my life experiences and my opinion regarding credit cards.
My friend got me a copy of the movie “Confessions of a Shopaholic” and though I’m not a big fan of any chic-flick movie her convincing prowess urged me to watch it. The film was great anyway, though done in a comic way, the movie made its mark by emphasizing the lesson it wants to convey. The story’s about a woman who was addicted to shopping – as what the title boasts – making her swim to credit card debts. As later on been haunted by debt collector and with no money to pay yet she tried very hard to avoid the him telling her boss that he’s a bitter ex-boyfriend that’s harassing her only to be humiliated later on when the collector told the truth in front of many people while she’s doing a TV interview.
Come to think of it, this situation happened not only to the lady on the movie; most of us face this debt burden.
My husband and I also got this dilemma even before we got married; we both have debts of our own – credit cards. Well who doesn’t have? My husband got four cards and I have six, which sums up to ten monthly dues that we need to settle.
I don’t know what lures us to obtain those plastic money but perhaps it’s the magic of credit line- giving us full purchase power without shedding cash- that made us addicted to them.
Credit cards are burdens in disguise. I can still remember how my friend and I filled up form-after-forms to submit to different card companies and how we curse them whenever we received a letter stating the famous quote “we’re sorry but we can’t grant your application at this time for undisclosed reason however you may still reapply after six months etcetera…”. Does it ring a bell?
Now that we have finally got those elusive plastic money and been able to utilize its great spending power we secretly wish we haven’t pursued its application. Don’t get me wrong, credit card really has a lot of benefits when used wisely but on the wrong hands or wrong decisions we’ll end up being pestered by numerous telephone calls from debt collection agents.
I’m talking from experience, credit cards can be any girl’s best friends, it could be a life saver, a magician, a fairy god mother rolled into one, and oftentimes we tend to forget that no matter how great swiping those Burberry wallets and Gucci shoes or how cheap that Valentino bag because it’s on sale, our ever dearest plastic money has its due date and incurs a lot of hidden charges when not paid making us drown in their interests and penalties that multiply.
Been there, done that…cliché but true, I have learned my lesson, though I did not only use my card shopping for personal enjoyment but also for my family’s sake I can’t deny the fact that I also made numerous wrong decisions involving credit card which I’ve been trying hard to fix these days.
There’s nothing wrong with having or using a card, just don’t let it overpower you. Having a card that you could readily pull when situation got tight is good; you just have to use it with caution unless you want to be bankrupt because of its compounding interest rate.
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